John Lubotsky

John Lubotsky

Current Mission: "Daydreaming, awash in the answers."

Personal Designations

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Community Designations

City Ambassador (Berkeley)
Contribution
Thailand Collective
United States
California
Berkeley
Lat: 37.87167, Lon: -122.27167
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General Information

John Lubotsky is a CS City Ambassador for Berkeley, United States!
John Lubotsky has been vouched for
VERIFIED MEMBER Identity Checked, Location Verified (3) more info
Couch availableMaybe
CouchSurf requests replied to97%
member sinceJune 12th, 2004
profile views4777
age35
genderMale
membernameJOHNLUBOTSKY
occupationTech geek for money, travelling and juggling and ahimsa for love.
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Languages

  • EnglishExpert
  • Sign Language - AmericanIntermediate
  • FrenchBeginner
  • ArabicBeginner
  • ThaiBeginner

Groups I Belong To

Berkeley 481:1210
Why: Home.
San Francisco 4598:17902
Why: Home, sweet home.
San Francisco Bay Area 10559:7689
Why: To connect with folks and events here in the Bay.
Burning Man 2988:4856
Why: It was a hell of a thing - 6 times so. Here's to carrying that forward.
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Couch Available: Maybe
Preferred Gender: Any
Max Surfers Per Night: 3

Shared Sleeping Surface: No
Shared Room: Depends

Welcome.

I have a house in West Berkeley with a couple-sized futon and an extra-comfy purple couch, a nice kitchen, and two bathrooms. It's a 20 minute walk / $6 cab ride from BART (the subway to San Francisco or the airport), and close to food shops and restaurants (and Berkeley's best $4 burrito.)

I particularly enjoy hosting people who are intelligent, playful, quick to laugh, perceptive, and appreciative of the wonder of being alive.

Among my friends are autodidacts, sex therapists, sadhus, circus freaks, and nonviolent revolutionaries - if you are or have loved one or all of these, chances are we'll get along. :)

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While you're here, I encourage you to check out some of the fantastic art and culture to be found in SF and the Bay Area.

Friends (83)

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RRRENATARRRENATA
24, Female
San Francisco, California
United States
Friends since October 2007
"the best game of "don't-touch-the-floor-its-hot-lava" i've ever played"
Friendship Type: Best Friend
I vouched for John Lubotsky
Met in person   Hosted2   Surfed1   Traveled30+  
Meredith Gilbert Meredith Gilbert
28, Female
Cambridge, Massachusetts
United States
Friends since February 2008
"Instant best friends from Thailand... talked shop about Africa, India, and SF."
Friendship Type: Best Friend
Met in person  
Jolie KarnoJolie Karno
38, Female
Berkeley, California
United States
"Ancient friend"
Sue HobartSue Hobart
36, Female
Berkeley, California
United States
Friends since February 2009
"A mutual friend introduced us"
Friendship Type: Good Friend
Met in person  
Tzadik GreenbergTzadik Greenberg
31, Male
Tucson, Arizona
United States
Friends since 2005
"he couch surfed with me in March '05 - beginning of powerful connection"
Rose BarberRose Barber
37, Female
Oakland, California
United States
Friends since March 2002
"through fire and love"
Friendship Type: Close Friend
I vouched for John Lubotsky
Met in person  
Aharon Wheels Bolsta Aharon Wheels Bolsta
37, Male
Oakland, California
United States
Friends since March 1994
"we met in 1994! we have weaved in and out of one another's lives since then, crashing on one another's couches as the need arises!"
Friendship Type: Close Friend
Met in person   Hosted4   Surfed7   Traveled7  
Wun YipWun Yip
29, Female
Oakland, California
United States
Friends since 1998
"burn a man"
Mariah PriceMariah Price
27, Female
Ann Arbor, Michigan
United States
Friends since September 2006
"Friends, coffee, bikes, and that sweet little goat shed!"
Friendship Type: Good Friend
Met in person  
Andrea BroussardAndrea Broussard
31, Female
Austin, Texas
United States
Friends since September 2007
"We met through a mutual friend and were brought back together by the lovely fates."
Friendship Type: Close Friend
Met in person   Surfed6  
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Interests

In no particular order: understanding systems, Nonviolent Communication, bikes, juggling, communicating in new languages, living in community, eating sustainably, climbing around like a monkey, enjoying the sun, energy work, breathing.

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Martin QUANTIN
From Martin QUANTIN
 Oberhausbergen, France
 Oct 19
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend, Surfed 1 days  
Positive

Thanks John for hosting me that night in Berkeley, that was fun! John was just moving to his new house in the hills, so I helped him carrying boxes and we had a little house warming party with his friends.

Adam Gordon 
From Adam Gordon
 San Francisco, United States
 Sep 14
Met in person Friend,  
Positive

John is a generous person who is always willing to give time and energy to support his friends. After working with him for a month on a very work intensive project I know him as a valuable team member, a great listener, and a good friend. Also a lot of fun and very sincere. I recommend getting to know him.

wonderfulwanderlust 
From wonderfulwanderlust
 Edmonton, Canada
 Mar 18
Met in person Friend, Surfed 5 days  
Positive

John is like a juggling, unicycle-riding, computer-geeking ball of vibrance. I'm in awe of how someone can come across as being so serene and down-to-earth, and yet so fervently passionate about life at the same time. He's a wonderful, inspiring character who I'm very glad I got the chance to stay with and get to know a little. I imagine that, regardless of location, time spent with him will always be filled with fun, fire and circus folk, delicious food, great conversation, and a lot of laughs.

Paul Maheke
From Paul Maheke
 Saint-Mande, France
 Mar 3
Met in person Surfed 3 days Traveled 20 days 
Positive

John was our most peacefull couchsurfing host, a really clever and interesting guy who seems to figure out a lot about human relations. He had 2 nice roomates and 1 lovely cat. Thank you for your patience with our so bad english level :)

Jacob Libby
From Jacob Libby
 Ann Arbor, United States
 Dec 21, 2008
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend, Surfed 2 days  
Positive

Two days at his place in Berkeley and already about to go out to the same parties. A generous, open-minded, and intelligent fellow for idle talk and philosophy.

Melissa Knowles 
From Melissa Knowles
 Brattleboro, United States
 Oct 17, 2008
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend, Surfed 3 days  
Positive

John was a great host- hospitable, generous, respectful, and overall just a lot of fun. i didnt get to try his infamous goat whipcream though...

JENNCONSPIRACY
From JENNCONSPIRACY
 Oakland, United States
 Sep 17, 2008
Met in person Friend, Hosted 28 days  
Positive

I have hosted John at my home in times between his travels and apartments - he's a conscientious guest, cleans up after himself and can be very entertaining (ask about fire juggling!). He's great with animals and very good company.

Suny Lou 
From Suny Lou
 Mafikeng, South Africa
 Sep 8, 2008
Met in person Close Friend, Surfed 1 days  
Positive

If you haven't surfed with John and slept on his futon, then you dunno what you're missing out on. He's energetic, considerate, thoughtful, and great to spar with. Plus, searching for spots to watch the sunset with him is a MUST!! :p Love you John!!

Pierfrancesco Pardini
From Pierfrancesco Pardini
 Lille, France
 Aug 23, 2008
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend, Surfed 1 days  
Positive

John hosted me for one night in his nice house in Berkeley after having spent the evening together at a couch surfing meeting in San Francisco. He's a very nice guy who will take the time for a good conversation and to make you feel like at home. Thanks and good luck!

MIMIMINI
From MIMIMINI
 Bangkok, Thailand
 Aug 1, 2008
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend, Traveled 1 days 
Positive

Joh such a wick guy who's really calm and can have fun in a very polite way lol
i enjoy so much when we went to Songkran festival here in Bkk.Hope to see you again!

Hannah Perner-wilson
From Hannah Perner-wilson
 Inverness, United Kingdom
 Jul 27, 2008
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend, Surfed 5 days  
Positive

Because of John my stay in Berkeley was that much more enjoyable. The bed was most comfortable, the cats super cute, his friends were all wonderful, the Balkan music beautiful and I was lucky that he had time to talk. I like his idea of teaching people about small and large systems and am curious to see what might come of it. Thank you John for everything!

JRBEDFORD
From JRBEDFORD
 Berkeley, United States
 Jul 15, 2008
Met in person Good Friend,  
Positive

John is incredible. Honest, straightforward, caring and incredibly intelligent... makes for a great conversation and a great time.

RKM Lai 
From RKM Lai
 Sacramento, United States
 Jul 13, 2008
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend, Surfed 1 days  
Positive

John was very responsive to my inquiry to surf his couch / futon, especially as he heard about my mom and her recovering from surgery. He was very friendly, welcoming to ShaiMei and I.

His residence was welcoming. Positive location and easy to find.

However, the futon had problems in the early, early morning that was disruptive to ShaiMei and I. The futon frame was easily fixed in the morning during the light of day.

I enjoyed being at his house. I had fun conversation, juggling experiences, and knowledge and experiences share. I very much reference a: highly recommend.

RRRENATA
From RRRENATA
 San Francisco, United States
 Jun 2, 2008
Met in person Best Friend, Hosted 2 days Surfed 1 days Traveled 30 days 
Positive

john is full of energy, love, care and honesty. he is very playful and enthusiastic, generous and thoughtful. besides being a wonderful friend, john is also a great travel partner and guest - fun to road trip with, to play silly car games with, to share food and responsibilities, to wander through new cities with, to be totally adventurous and open minded, respectful and responsible.

really, meet him.

Betsy Shafer
From Betsy Shafer
 Benton Harbor, United States
 May 17, 2008
Met in person Close Friend,  
Positive

As host John ensures pure comfort and every need met, as a friend his compassion is pure and innocent. John opened his house at the most unpredicted times of the day just so I had a place to rest my bones.

Naz Gassiep 
From Naz Gassiep
 Wheelers Hill, Australia
 May 15, 2008
Met in person Close Friend,  
Positive

John is a caring and compassionate person who is very pleasant to be around and stimulating to talk to. The world needs more people like this!

DiamondinLondon
From DiamondinLondon
 Harrow, United Kingdom
 May 14, 2008
Met in person Friend,  
Positive

John is the most gentle person I've ever met, who feels deeply for all and not only wants the world to be a better place but goes out and does something about it. There are numerous incidents I could quote but I was particularly blown away by his consideration when I had just lost most of my clothes at the launderette in Thailand a few days earlier and John phoned me especially to say he was heading that way and would I like to come with him and see if the clothes had turned up.

I was not only lucky enough to get to work with him in Thailand but even luckier to get to know him better outside of the work environment when I got to Melbourne.

KNULP 
From KNULP
 Genova, Italy
 Apr 18, 2008
Met in person Friend,  
Positive

I think john have an uncommon constant state of calmness and an high zen degree. He have also a big heart. He even rescued me when my bicycle has broken in the middle of the street. One big Love to you and all the mates up there

Aharon Wheels Bolsta 
From Aharon Wheels Bolsta
 Oakland, United States
 Apr 18, 2008
Met in person Close Friend, Hosted 4 days Surfed 7 days Traveled 7 days 
Positive

14 years of friendship!

Honey Varindaravej 
From Honey Varindaravej
 Bangkok, Thailand
 Apr 17, 2008
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend,  
Positive

John is amazing guy,he will make you laugh a lot with his performance! I met up with him only few hours ,make me very happy :O) Meet him if you get a change!

bee-chaleerat
From bee-chaleerat
 Leuven, Belgium
 Apr 16, 2008
Met in person Friend, Hosted 3 days  
Positive

Unique hair style,Great listener, Warm funny.. John is lovely! It's my honor to fight with him with our water guns in Songkran water war in BKK ;-) It was great to have you around, John. I hope our paths will cross again someplace :-)

Джей
From Джей
 Shepparton, Australia
 Apr 2, 2008
Met in person Friend, Hosted 4 days Surfed 5 days Traveled 1 days 
Positive

John's perspective on life is just amazing. He sees things in situations & people that make my head spin. On another note, my (formerly virgin) kitchen bench will never be the same again! A pleasure to have around, John's travel, technical and life experience makes him easy to talk to, easy to relate to and great to listen to. After watching some Australian "late night" comedy, I can safely say (in true Aussie style) - "Harden the @#$% up, John!" Be sure to host or at least meet John if he's nearby! I really enjoyed staying with John in Berkeley, exploring the area and simply relaxing. John and his housemates are a wealth of information on the local area, where to go & best of all - where to eat!

Lilian Pungas
From Lilian Pungas
 Berlin, Germany
 Mar 13, 2008
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend,  
Positive

John, we gotta find you the german guy to dance with the next time..! :D it's a shame i couldn't see you dancing this time in Pai, well maybe in Bkk airport? haha ;)
john is real friendly + open and extremely fun to hang out with ;) see you in Bkk and have fun in Oz (plenty of germans there!;)

Benjamin Ranta 
From Benjamin Ranta
 Ishpeming, United States
 Mar 4, 2008
Met in person Friend, Surfed 13 days  
Positive

John made me feel very welcomed at the CS Collective in Thailand. He's quite possibly the most gentle person I've ever met. John is a great communicator and is as reliable as the day is long. I'm convince that there isn't a tense situation that John couldn't de-escalate. Too bad he's not running for office.

PINKFISH 
From PINKFISH
 San Francisco, United States
 Feb 6, 2008
Met in person Good Friend,  
Positive

Freakin' stubborn, damn quet, highly sensitive, deeply intense, lovingly considerate, truly dedicated. I cherish him.

MOUNTAIN BOI 
From MOUNTAIN BOI
 Pai, Thailand
 Jan 28, 2008
Met in person Good Friend,  
Positive

John is a very nice person, gentle polite and kind. I met him in Pai, We go out and so the hose back ride together. I have a to say that this person is very pleasant to be around with. Hope I have more time to spent with him.

Rose Barber
From Rose Barber
 Oakland, United States
 Jan 26, 2008
Met in person Close Friend,  
Positive

John rocks! He is a great human being and a dazzling clown!

Lisa Sampson
From Lisa Sampson
 Adelaide, Australia
 Jan 24, 2008
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend, Surfed 9 days  
Positive

John is a great calming influence on the CS Thai Collective. I think this guy lives and breathes 'community' and that is a trait I admire in today's sometimes selfish world.

Carlos M. Cardenas 
From Carlos M. Cardenas
 Sevilla, Spain
 Jan 16, 2008
Met in person Good Friend,  
Positive

John is really a good hearted guy, warm and open, the kind of people anyone like to have as friend. I am very glad to know him and thankful for making me feel welcome. We still have a couple of drinks to share and hope to be in the near future.

greenheart
From greenheart
 Portland, United States
 Jan 16, 2008
Met in person Friend,  
Positive

I met John while traveling through Eugene in the summer of '96 - we both spent a lot of time at Icky's teahouse. I remember John as being a very warm, sincere, thoughtful, calm & positive person. I was very excited to find him here and hope to see him again very soon!

Debasis Sil
From Debasis Sil
 Kolkata, India
 Jan 10, 2008
Met in person Good Friend,  
Positive

John is very different! He is a huge reservoir of knowledge! He is so soft spoken and golden hearted man. The best part is when He talks others listen. He is a master bicycle rider too.I would love to meet him again.

Elena Peters 
From Elena Peters
 Cologne, Germany
 Dec 28, 2007
Met in person Friend,  
Positive

Quiet at first glance, John goes deep immediately. Conversing with him is a real treat, and he might just invite you to join him for a stroll on the beach - or whatever natural scene is at hand :o)

Sara Engstrand
From Sara Engstrand
 Copenhagen, Denmark
 Nov 17, 2007
Met in person  
Positive

Though John claims not to know what to see in Berkeley he had more than enough great suggestions and knows a great deal about the area's history. I just stayed with him for one night but we had a great time dancing african dance and looking at the stars from his outdors couch.

Weston Hankins 
From Weston Hankins
 Guadalajara, Mexico
 Nov 14, 2007
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend,  
Positive

John's peace irradiates to everyone and everything within 10ft! I'm looking forward to spend some more time with him in Thailand!

The Jolly Green Giant, Derek Wallace 
From The Jolly Green Giant, Derek Wallace
 North Hollywood, United States
 Nov 3, 2007
Met in person Friend, Surfed 3 days  
Positive

The warm rays of the sun. A soft cat rubbing against your bare feet. A frosty fruit juice in your hand. A bowl of delicious pumpkin soup in your belly. Great stories, warm smiles, heartfelt laughs. These are the things I see when I close my eyes and think of my time with John.

I found Mr. Lubotsky while trying to meet as many locals as possible before I left the Bay Area and fell in love with him so much that I decided to stay a little longer. Whether it was joining me for a Halloween costume karaoke contest (during which he filmed my rendition of "We Are the World"), helping direct me around town on a day of crazy errands or just being there to talk about anything under the sun, John was the absolute perfect host and new friend to make. I keep saying this about all the people I met in Berkeley, but it really is true - they're the kinds of people I went up there specifically to find. John was no exception.

Actually, I take that back. John is most definitely the exception - he's one in a million. Have fun in Thailand, brother, and I'll see you soon!

Camtastic    
From Camtastic
 San Francisco, United States
 Oct 30, 2007
Met in person Friend, Traveled 7 days 
Positive

John and I kicked it at Burning Man 07 at the Lost Penguin Cafe.

Andrea Broussard
From Andrea Broussard
 Austin, United States
 Sep 28, 2007
Met in person Close Friend, Surfed 6 days  
Positive

John is an incredibly generous person with alot of love to offer. It is the lucky individual who gets to surf his couch.

Joshua Adair 
From Joshua Adair
 Austin, United States
 Sep 19, 2007
Met in person Good Friend, Surfed 9 days  
Positive

John has been my favorite host ever. By far. Generous, honest, accomodating, funny, entertaining, giving, and all the other good verbs in the dictionary, he is a great human being

HungrySteve 
From HungrySteve
 South Lake Tahoe, United States
 Sep 19, 2007
Met in person Friend, Surfed 4 days  
Positive

John is amazing cs host and person. He welcomed me into his home just because our friend Josh was staying there. He invited me into his home for 4 days as casually as most people say hello. He is soft spoken and considerate, knows some great people in the area and is wonderful to know in general. If you appreciate quality humans, meet John. He even took the time to help me learn a couple new juggling moves because he is a circus lover in addition to everything else. John is Quality (yeah, with a capital Q)!

TeDeVan Kurzweil
From TeDeVan Kurzweil
 New York, United States
 Sep 10, 2007
Met in person Friend, Surfed 3 days  
Positive

It was magic on the playa and there was a mutual spiritual understanding and I look forward to seeing him again on the west coast. I will always be a lost penguin.

Breakfast Breakfast
From Breakfast Breakfast
 San Francisco, United States
 Sep 10, 2007
Met in person Friend, Traveled 4 days 
Positive

I first met John at his house in Berkeley one night but didn't hang out with him much until we camped together at Burning Man. He was a great addition to our group, always full of positivity and good vibes. He's a warm and radiant character and I'm glad I know him.

Lauren Herzak-Bauman
From Lauren Herzak-Bauman
 Minneapolis, United States
 May 28, 2007
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend, Surfed 2 days  
Positive

My two nights in Berkeley were well spent staying at John's house. He kindly let me borrow a bike for the day, a wonderful surpriese. Both he and his roommate shared wonderful stories, as well as coffee and breakfast. John is very good at following tangential sequences. Thank you for a lovely stay!

Carlotta and Alessio Pegoraro
From Carlotta and Alessio Pegoraro
 Pistoia, Italy
 May 14, 2007
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend, Surfed 1 days  
Positive

John was PERFECT! He welcomed me in his house, he gave me his own bed and his bike. We went to an incredible show together and we introduced me to his friends... Incredibly nice! I wait for you in Italy now. Or Brazil.

Mariah Price
From Mariah Price
 Ann Arbor, United States
 Apr 19, 2007
Met in person Good Friend,  
Positive

John is a kind and exuberant host. A rare gem of a human being!

Lyle Yip Sprague
From Lyle Yip Sprague
 Berkeley, United States
 Aug 10, 2006
Met in person Good Friend,  
Positive

this cat is so down to earth he's rootlike...

Tzadik Greenberg
From Tzadik Greenberg
 Tucson, United States
 Jul 19, 2006
Met in person  

Great, Sweet, Gentle Soul. John came to stay with me just before entering two weeks of soul journeying - I felt the energy he added to my space brought retreat and centering to my life. I experienced a very beautiful soul, full of life, compassion and humor.

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